Tag Archives: reality

Don’t Take it Personally

Posted on April 30, 2017 by Lisa Ivaldi

3 min read How much time have you wasted worrying about why someone was seemingly curt or rude to you?  Ruminating about what you might have said or done that offended them?  If you are like me, probably too much! … Continue reading →

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Suffering is Optional

Posted on July 31, 2016 by Lisa Ivaldi

3 min read “Pain is inevitable.  Suffering is optional.”  I really didn’t get it the first time I heard that quote.  I equated the two – pain and suffering.  How can you have pain without suffering?  Pain hurts and hurting … Continue reading →

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Change Your Reality

Posted on November 12, 2015 by Lisa Ivaldi

3 min read I changed outfits three times before going to a recent networking dinner.  I was working on a project that had some glitches and didn’t get ready to go out until the last minute.  Not only didn’t I … Continue reading →

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Mind the Gap

Posted on October 15, 2015 by Lisa Ivaldi

3 min read A few years ago my daughter and I were helping to close up the family cottage for the winter.  The water system was turned off so I went to the lake to rinse my hands before we … Continue reading →

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